
Military in Family Law
Experienced Military Family Law Attorney in Albuquerque
Military families face many special circumstances in family law court. The potential of deployment can have a significant effect on custody and timesharing orders. Benefits and other additions to base salary will affect child support and alimony calculations. Military pensions face specific rules that do not apply to other retirement funds. Whether a court has personal jurisdiction over military personnel also face specific rules. In any case which involves one or more parties who are in the military (active duty, reserve, or national guard), it is important to speak with a qualified Albuquerque attorney who knows how these multitude of factors play into a divorce, parentage, or other family law case.
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Income and Asset Calculations for Military Personnel
Child support in New Mexico is calculated using both parents’ gross monthly incomes. For a service member, monthly income also includes additions/allowances to base pay such as BAH and BAS. Similarly, when calculating the need and/or amount of spousal support, the court will consider allowances or other increases to base pay in the service member’s overall income. When one or more parent is a service member, it is beneficial to pay close attention to incomes for child support and/or spousal support, as military pay can fluctuate depending on allowances, increased pay for deployments, etc.
When it comes to asset division, disability income is not divisible like a pension or IRA would be. For service members, this means that military disability retirement and VA benefits are not divisible. However, the court counts all income sources for child support and spousal support, including disability income.


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Military Retirements
The two main considerations for military retirements in divorce surround the military pension and TSP. The TSP is divided similar to an IRA, as division is calculated by the amount of funds put in during the marriage. Military pensions, however, are more complex.
Many service members have heard of the “10/10” rule for retirement division, but there are many misconceptions surrounding this rule. The “10/10” rule states that DFAS will only directly distribute retirement to the other spouse if the spouses were married for at least 10 years during 10 years of active service. However, if the parties do not qualify for this standard, this does not mean that the other spouse cannot ask the district court to divide the marital portion of retirement (although calculating the division and receiving payment become more difficult). If the service member becomes disabled or forfeits a portion of military retirement for VA benefits, this can also alter the funds the other spouse receives, potentially bringing the parties back to court.
How to calculate the marital portion of military retirement has undergone drastic changes in recent years. Previously, federal law allowed states to divide the marital portion as that state law decided. This occurred mainly in one of two ways, 1) calculating 50% of the retirement from the date of marriage to date of divorce using the military spouse’s retirement pay (New Mexico’s preferred method), or 2) calculating 50% of retirement from date of marriage to date of divorce using a retired pay number as if the spouse had retired on the date of divorce. Now, however, federal law dictates that military retirement can only be divided via Option 2. This is significant as it makes calculation of retirement as of the date of divorce more complicated for cases in which the military spouse has not yet retired, and the non-military spouse could receive less retirement funds if the military spouse was at a lower rank at the time of divorce than at the date of retirement.
No matter which side of the military retirement division you are on, it is important to have an attorney on your side experienced in the issues of military division to make sure the division is correct and distributed as soon as possible. Contact us today!

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